Thursday, December 20, 2012

12-20 A Gift

Hello everyone!

Today I was granted a special gift from God--a wonderful Snow Day!!! (You probably didn't realize it was just for me, did you?) I wasn't sure people still got those treats once you were not a part of a school family. But, here it is. I love it! It's just as much fun as when I was a kid--although my activities are different.

I did NOT go outside and build a snowman. I did NOT go sledding. I have NOT engaged in a single snowball fight with the neighbors. I've kept myself tucked in the house. Made fudge. Took a nap. I plan on doing some more cookies when I'm done with this blog. Just a quiet day to be home alone--well, not alone. I've got the two beast-dogs here.

First they want out. Then they want in. Then they want out. Then in. Get the idea? They love the snow but maybe it makes their little feet cold. The backyard looks terrible--all full of tracks and yellow spots. If I want to make real snow cones I'd better be sure to hit the front yard snow. :}

Today began my SIX DAY vacation from work!! I love my job, but I am sure ready to just be home and rest for six days. Sweats. No make up. Fuzzy socks. This is the life!!

For Christmas our schedule resembles something that an airport controller may have to look at. I have people coming and going, all at different times. It's crazy, but we have a three hour window when all five of the kids and their spouses and grandbaby will be here. We've had to modify our family traditions to fit this window.

December 21:
Sometime Paul gets here.

December 24:
Sometime this day Logan and Jenna come.
2:00 p.m. Luke arrives.
3:00 p.m. Grant, Angela, Payton hope to arrive (hoping that planes are not delayed!)
3:30 p.m. Lex, Corey, and Enoch come over.
3:45 p.m. Luke gives presents and gets presents.
4:45 p.m. Loy leaves for church.
5:00 p.m. Luke leaves.
5:15 p.m. Everyone leaves to go to church.
6:00 p.m. Church service.
7:30 p.m. Arrive back at our house.
7:35 p.m. Everyone gives and gets presents.
8:35 p.m. Late soup supper.
9:30 p.m. Logan and Jenna leave for Columbus
9:35 p.m. Lex, Corey, and Enoch head home.

Kind of busy, right? I'm working very hard to not be THAT mother-in-law who causes problems and demands things always go her way. Go with the flow. Bend like a willow. Don't sweat the small stuff. Chill. That's my motto. And it's hard to keep that in mind when our schedule looks so crazy.

So, if you're waiting for something profound or hilarious in this blog entry, sorry. Not happening today. I'm just resting and relaxing and chilling.

And I love, love, love it!!

I hope you get a chance to just be still during all this craziness we've made Christmas. To recharge your flagging batteries. To not have to actually cross anything off a "To Do" list. I wouldn't want to live like this all the time, but it's a delicious indulgence!!

Be still, and know that I am God!--Psalm 46:10

Love,
Kitt.

I love this story. I've probably posted it somewhere before. But it's just so darned good!!


The Man and the Birds 
by Paul Harvey
The man to whom I’m going to introduce you was not a scrooge, he was a kind decent, mostly good man. Generous to his family, upright in his dealings with other men. But he just didn’t believe all that incarnation stuff which the churches proclaim at Christmas Time. It just didn’t make sense and he was too honest to pretend otherwise. He just couldn’t swallow the Jesus Story, about God coming to Earth as a man.
“I’m truly sorry to distress you,” he told his wife, “but I’m not going with you to church this Christmas Eve.” He said he’d feel like a hypocrite. That he’d much rather just stay at home, but that he would wait up for them. And so he stayed and they went to the midnight service.
Shortly after the family drove away in the car, snow began to fall. He went to the window to watch the flurries getting heavier and heavier and then went back to his fireside chair and began to read his newspaper. Minutes later he was startled by a thudding sound…Then another, and then another. Sort of a thump or a thud…At first he thought someone must be throwing snowballs against his living room window. But when he went to the front door to investigate he found a flock of birds huddled miserably in the snow. They’d been caught in the storm and, in a desperate search for shelter, had tried to fly through his large landscape window.
Well, he couldn’t let the poor creatures lie there and freeze, so he remembered the barn where his children stabled their pony. That would provide a warm shelter, if he could direct the birds to it.
Quickly he put on a coat, galoshes, tramped through the deepening snow to the barn. He opened the doors wide and turned on a light, but the birds did not come in. He figured food would entice them in. So he hurried back to the house, fetched bread crumbs, sprinkled them on the snow, making a trail to the yellow-lighted wide open doorway of the stable. But to his dismay, the birds ignored the bread crumbs, and continued to flap around helplessly in the snow. He tried catching them…He tried shooing them into the barn by walking around them waving his arms…Instead, they scattered in every direction, except into the warm, lighted barn.
And then, he realized that they were afraid of him. To them, he reasoned, I am a strange and terrifying creature. If only I could think of some way to let them know that they can trust me…That I am not trying to hurt them, but to help them. But how? Because any move he made tended to frighten them, confuse them. They just would not follow. They would not be led or shooed because they feared him.
If only I could be a bird,” he thought to himself, “and mingle with them and speak their language. Then I could tell them not to be afraid. Then I could show them the way to safe, warm…to the safe warm barn. But I would have to be one of them so they could see, and hear and understand.”
At that moment the church bells began to ring. The sound reached his ears above the sounds of the wind. And he stood there listening to the bells – Adeste Fidelis – listening to the bells pealing the glad tidings of Christmas.
And he sank to his knees in the snow.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Flying...as in Reindeer??




Good, Bad, or Ugly… Watley Top Ten Events of 2012

10. Loy was promoted to full professor at Nebraska Wesleyan University. He still enjoys playing the bass in the Faith Bible Church worship band. And I took on responsibility for some of the bookkeeping at the Lancaster County Medical Society

9. Dogs. Naughtier and naughtier. They love to jump the fence and chew and wrestle, but are beginning to settle down a little bit, now that they are 1-1/2 years old. Pip, the papi-poo, is on the right, Sparky, the shihtzu-poo, on the left. Their common thread? Poo.

8. Lots of fun travel: Phoenix with Luke, Arkansas-Missouri-Oklahoma with Luke and Loy, Michigan with Loy. Plus I got to meet a long-time pen pal and sneak in some fun times with dear friends. Loy and Grant and Paul went to San Diego to see the Padres. Paul took an Odyssey out west…a month-long trip to visit national parks and friends—just because he could.

7. Loy and I took a wonderful trip to North Captiva Island in October. No cars. No shopping. No work. No wi-fi!!  Walks on the beach, reading books, and sleeping in. Gorgeous sunsets. Great trip!

6. Loy broke his elbow in July. While the break itself did not seem too terribly serious, he has had months of physical therapy to regain full movement of his right arm. Luckily, he’s left-handed. His first thought after falling? “Oh no! I dropped my ice cream!”



5. After graduating from NWU with majors in Business Administration and Sports Management, Paul moved to Macomb, Illinois, for graduate school at Western Illinois University. But after one semester, he learned that he wants to be close to family and will be moving to Sioux Falls to enroll in University of Sioux Falls’ MBA program. Sports Information is his career track. He's on the left in this picture at his friend, Parker's wedding. Here’s what Paul says I should say: Paul is, not only the smartest, most caring and funniest of our children, but he is also the best looking (and in all honesty, our favorite). Paul spends his free time making the world a better place with his great sense of humor and good looks. Paul's brothers, Logan and Grant, wish everyday that they were half the man that Paul is, but all they can do is hope because no one will ever be as manly as Paul.”



4. Logan and Jenna moved to Elkhorn, Nebraska. Jenna teaches 4th grade for Elkhorn Public Schools and Logan is a CPA at Melotz and Wilson. They bought a house within sight-lines of Village Point Mall. Logan has run in two marathons—Boston (where the weather was SWELTERING) and was scheduled to run the New York Marathon (a week after Superstorm Sandy). Springfield, MO, substituted at the very last minute for NYC. Jenna got her Master’s degree in Educational Leadership from Doane. Logan’s response to Paul’s comments: “As long as we’re lying, I am Superman, drive a Ferrari, and stay up past 11 o'clock on the weekend.”


 

3. Alexis and Corey welcomed 18-year-old Ghanan Enoch Katani into their home. We love having him in our family. He is a junior at Lincoln East High School and enjoys playing soccer. In December Alexis will graduate from UNL with a Master’s in Actuarial Science and has accepted a job with Coventry Health in Omaha. Corey has been busy working on updating their Lincoln house. About all this trash talk from brothers, Lex says, “I’m staying out of it. Let the brothers have fun.”


2. After nearly four years, Luke went back to live with his biological mother. Her desire, not ours. We are sad.



1. Grant and Angela welcomed a little sweetie into their lives. Payton Lynn was born April 5 and we are now Grammy and Gramps!! YAY!! However, after giving us a taste of grandparenting in the same city, they moved so Grant could accept the job of Head Cross Country Coach at University of Sioux Falls. I think there are laws against this kind of elder-abuse. Also, in his spare time, he is well on his way to earning his Doctorate of Education in Sports Management from the U.S. Sports Academy. Angela graduated from Wesleyan with a degree in Health and Fitness and is totally enjoying being a mother—and doing a great job. And, by the way, Luke thinks he should be included in all pictures!! Grant’s rather verbose take on his life: Grant is the most masculine of the brothers. In the past year he has increased his bench press to slightly over 350 pounds and can front squat nearly 800 pounds. His time is spent power lifting, toning his gluteals, and teaching aerobics to underprivileged children in Africa. Angela lives the life that many women dream of living. As if being married to Grant was not enough, she delivered the world’s cutest baby, Payton, into the world. Within minutes of Payton's arrival, the Pope, President Obama, and Santa Claus all called to congratulate her on a job well done. She spends her time scrapbooking Grant's power lifting competition medals and changing every one of Payton's diapers. Payton already has an IQ greater than her uncles’ combined IQs. While that isn’t much of an accomplishment, she is well on her way to a lucrative professional sumo wrestling career.”


            

We’ve had some tough times this year as well as some great times and God has been so faithful to us. Things have not always gone the way we want, but we can say, without hesitation, that God is good. All the time.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!! Love, Loy and Kitt

Saturday, December 1, 2012

12-1 Flying with a Backwards Glance

Christmastime. I love it. Except for the realization, as I am pulling out all my favorite decorating items, that in one month's time I have to put them all away again. My German pessimism coming out again, I'm afraid.

Growing up it was so magical it almost hurt to wait and wait and wait for the Big Day. We always opened our presents on Christmas Eve, right after a beautiful church service, complete with every person getting to light a candle while singing "Silent Night." After that Mom would have a table set with goodies and munchies.

My brothers were much older than Bunny and I (hmmm...guess they still are!), so they were married and starting their families during these golden memory times. We were always glad they married girls from our town so we could have them on the 24th and they would spend the 25th at the in-laws. One time Den and Gail arrived after we had left for church. When we returned they told me that I had "just missed Santa. And we petted Rudolph!" That was kind of a bummer guys!! To just miss him!

I remember the first Christmas after I was told the stark reality of certain fictional-characters-that-I-thought-were-real. Bummer. I was really sad. So I determined I wouldn't go that route with my own kiddoes. While we watched "Rudolf" or "Frosty," we always told them he was pretend. One time 3-year-old Logan told the neighbor boy that "Santa is dead." We never said that!! Really!

I was always in charge of decorating the tree. Daddy had about 12 strings of lights that he required to be on-tree. He loved the flashing ones. Not sequenced. The kind where whole chunks of your tree go black for awhile then light up again. So, needless to say, our tree was a mass of flashing lights. And also, needless to say, we use two strings on our tree now and NONE of them flash or sequence. :)

Mom loved to shop. No, she LOVED to shop. With tons of presents under the tree she and I had a battle going. She would make piles of presents. Here was my pile. Here was Bun's pile. Here were the piles for the boys. That didn't go over well with me. I'd get home from school and artistically arrange the presents under the tree--all mixed up. When I got home the next day there were the piles. How annoying that must've been to her! When you opened one she would invariably say, "That was originally $89. . . I got it for $3." That would be followed by, "You can return it if you want."

My dad always bought each of us girls one gift. He would go out on Christmas Eve Day and buy it. It was always so special to us, whatever he got. Earrings (the Christmas after Mom let me get my ears pierced against Daddy's wishes), a robe, and, gee, I can't remember any other gifts from him!

We've kept some of the traditions. Open presents on  Christmas Eve after going to church. (When we have lived someplace that didn't have a Christmas Eve service we told the kids they had to wait for the first star to come out. Or, in cloudy weather, for the street lamps to come on. I went with the three presents per person: one clothes, one useful, and one fun. Now that there are married kids I've adapted to three gifts per couple: one couple gift and one for each person in the couple. I'm going to have to write another chapter on dealing with grandchildren...I'd buy them everything if I don't have a rule to follow!

I just found out a few years ago that we have a tradition that I make cheesy potato soup each Christmas Eve. I didn't realize I did that all the time, but  now it's written down in the Watley Manual (that the kids think we have.)

Loy buys the stocking stuffers (errr...I mean Santa leaves the stocking stuffers). They are elaborately filled with all sorts of goodies. One item is always a new toothbrush. The rest can vary. There are so many things that usually it is a pile topped with a flat stocking so we know who gets what. We've told the kids that only people who stay overnight here on Christmas Eve get stockings. There have been grumblings in the ranks over this. :)

It seems like there has been a trend among us Christians to put a damper on my celebrations. Like I'm wrong to want to buy my kids presents and that if I don't have a "Happy Birthday, Jesus" cake I'm some sort of a heathen. But you know, the Bible doesn't tell us to celebrate Jesus's birth like it does tell us to celebrate other things. There are no rules written there. I've been pondering that lately.

What do I really love about Christmas?

I LOVE giving my loved ones gifts that I have thoughtfully purchased. I think I actually probably love giving more than getting. (But, kids, don't get any ideas!) It's not so much the gift itself but the fact that someone thought about me and chose a specific item thinking it would make me happy.  "So if you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him.  Matthew 7:10-12 I am not going to apologize to anyone giving gifts to those I love.

I LOVE being with my family. Love, love, love it. And it struck me that when I get to heaven it might be like that...a homecoming. Joy at seeing everyone. Lots of talking and laughing and loving spending time together. Just a thought I had...

I LOVE eating special foods. Things we don't eat any other time of year. Divinity. Grandma Rogers Sugar Cookies with frosting (even though I am the worst cookie decorator EVER. They still taste fantastic!)

I LOVE thinking about a baby born in a manger to a young virgin and the wise men and the shepherds. That is a wonderful historical image. But you know, that doesn't give life. It's miraculous, but we weren't saved when He was born.

It isn't about the miracles Jesus did while He was here on earth. Those are amazing. They are wonderful. I don't know why He show Himself in so many miracles now. But, they don't give life.

It's not even just about His dying on the cross. Lots of people have died on crosses throughout history. That doesn't give us life.

It's about what happened AFTER the cross that is life giving. Life changing. Like nothing ever. Jesus was on that cross dying thinking of me. Taking the penalty for the sins I would commit. Being separated from His Father because of me. But, the great news, He rose again. For me.

It was His gift. But, it will do me no good at all if I leave it in a pile under the tree.

I'm not going to lie. I don't understand it all. I don't know why it had to be this way. But I KNOW that I KNOW that I KNOW that it is true.

Here's one of my favorite Christmas songs. Hope you like it.

Merry Christmas!!!

It's not just about the manger
Where the baby lay
It's not all about the angels
Who sang for him that day

It's not just about the shepherds
Or the bright and shining star
It's not all about the wisemen
Who travelled from afar

It's about the cross
It's about my sin
It's about how Jesus came to be born once
So that we could be born again

It's about the stone
That was rolled away
So that you and I could have real life someday

It's about the cross
It's about the cross

It's not just about the presents
Underneath the tree
It's not all about the feeling
That the season brings to me
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/g/go_fish/about_the_cross.html ]
It's not just about coming home
To be with those you love
It's not all about the beauty
In the snow I'm dreaming of

The beginning of the story is wonderful and great
But it's the ending that can save you and that's why we celebrate

It's about the cross
It's about my sin
It's about how Jesus came to be born once
So that we could be born again

It's about God's love
Nailed to a tree
It's about every drop of blood that flowed from Him when it should have been me

It's about the stone
That was rolled away
So that you and I could have real life someday
So that you and I could have real life someday

It's about the cross
It's about the cross



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